Going to college for the first time can get lonely if you haven’t met any friends or met anyone that truly have a “crush” on.  While it can get awfully boring with nothing to do after all your classes and studying is done, don’t let that get you down!  No matter what college you attend, there are plenty of college girls out there that are single and are looking for someone to be around as well.  Hopefully, these simple tips will help you find a college girl you can date on campus:

Get to know her.  just because a girl is good looking or “hot”, doesn’t mean she’s going to be a good person.  Make sure you get to know that girl before you start asking her out on dates.  Sometimes what’s on the outside is not what’s on the inside.  The easiest way to start things off is to simply take her out for coffee one day and ask a few questions.  Don’t treat it as a date.  If you do this, it won’t be as stressful for you.

Ask her out.  Once you do the coffee thing or ask her a few questions and you truly do like her, ask her out on a date.  If you never ask, the chance will never come.  The worst thing that will happen is that she will say no.  If you ask, you can tell yourself that you tried at least.  When you don’t try, you’re going to hit yourself late when you see her with someone else.

Pick the date.  Instead of doing a simple dinner and a movie date, you have to be unique.  Try and think of something fun that will show her that you’re unique in a way.  No one wants a simpleton that will do the same thing over and over.  This is not a way to live life.  Instead, have fun with her and pick a great night.  Use your imagination!

Go on the date.  When on the date, be respectful.  Don’t expect much out of it since it’s the first night.  Instead, focus on what you’re there to do.. have fun!  If you have fun and show it, your chances of a second date are very great.

Ask for seconds.  If the first time went great and you feel that great vibe, ask her out on a second if you enjoyed yourself.  If you didn’t enjoy yourself, then forget and move on.  Most of the times, you’ll get a good idea if she was having fun.  If you sense that, go for it and ask!  From here on out, the rest of your dates should get a little easier.

Dating during college should be fun but don’t make yourself stress out over it or make it get in the way of your college work!  Having a serious relationship during college can be dangerous and some points and you’re there for a reason, to learn.  If you’re not learning because of your dating social life, it may be best to wait until you graduate.